A CSJ Conversation with Mike Fisher

Heading into the 2016 NHL season, the Nashville Predators made an obvious if not overdue move. The team named veteran defender Mike Fisher its captain. With nearly 20 years of experience under his belt, Fisher is one of the league’s statesmen and most respected players.

But ironically, it’s his marriage to country music superstar Carrie Underwood that has brought him the most notoriety in recent years. And he’s okay playing second fiddle to his award-winning, platinum selling wife. Living in her shadows seems to fit his low-key personality. On the ice, however, Fisher’s hard-hitting, aggressive style is anything but laid back.

In this conversation with CSJ, Fisher talks to managing editor Chad Bonham about how he became a Christian, how he applies his faith to the game of hockey, and what kind of example he hopes to live out for his teammates.

screen-shot-2016-09-24-at-1-32-36-am

Chad Bonham: Tell me about your background and how you became a Christian?

Mike Fisher: It’s kind of a long story, but I grew up in a Christian family in Peterborough, Ontario. Both of my parents were raised in Christian homes, which was great. They instilled in us that God came first and they showed us what it was like to have a relationship with Christ. I accepted Christ at a young age, at the age of six years old, and just tried to play hockey and balance that. I had some struggles later in my teenage years. I moved away from home and struggled a little bit being on my home and finding out who I was and trying to mix that with my faith and make it real. I learned a lot of lessons and made some mistakes along the way. I was probably about 22 years old when I recommitted myself to get off the fence and go all in and get serious about my faith. That’s really when I experienced God’s love and His forgiveness and His true grace. I worked through a lot of things. I needed it to be my own not just because it was what I grew up in. I needed it to be something real for me. That’s what it became. It’s been a lot of fun along the way. I’ve learned a lot.

Bonham: Don’t you have some family members involved in ministry?

Fisher: My mom and dad aren’t, but I have an uncle who’s been a pastor and was the chaplain for the Toronto Blue Jays for a while and some minor league teams. My other uncle is a pastor as well.

Bonham: Thanks to your NHL experience and your marriage to Carrie Underwood, you’ve been able to travel to some unique places outside of Canada like Oklahoma, Tennessee and Georgia. What have your learned from those travels?

Fisher: It’s been fun. I traveled for hockey but it was mostly throughout Ontario as a kid. We had one trip to Florida when I was really, really young. We never went on family vacations because we were always going to hockey tournaments. I made one trip out west to B.C., but other than that I hadn’t done a lot of travel until I started playing professionally and I’ve got to see a lot of different cities and state. Oklahoma wasn’t one of them, but I had some friends in Nashville prior to meeting Carrie as well. So I did spend some time there as well. I love Nashville. And I’ve visited Oklahoma a few times. It’s fun. It’s great. Carrie is proud of her hometown. She loves to get back when she can. We don’t get back as much as we’d like to, but it’s a great place for sure.

Bonham: Being married to someone whose schedule is just as crazy if not crazier than yours, have you found a formula that allows you to have a balanced relationship?

screen-shot-2016-09-24-at-1-34-10-am

Fisher: When we dated and then when we were first married, it was just a week here and a weekend there. That became our norm and we got used to it. We talked on the phone and Skype. We were able to do Bible studies together and pray together. Early on in our relationship, it was good because we were dating and getting to know each other really well. Then now, and once I made it to Nashville, I get to see a lot of her when she’s not out on tour. We got to spend a lot of time together this summer and now that the season is starting again, we’re like, “How did we do it before?” But she’ll be going back on tour next year. When we’re both busy, it might be easier than when one of us is just sitting at home and the other person is gone all the time. Because we’re both busy, we’re always looking at our schedules. “When are you here? When are you there? How do we do this?” You just make it work. It’s tough to go a month and not see each other, which we have done, but when you do see each other, there’s nothing better. It’s awesome.

Bonham: Even though it was a trade situation that was orchestrated by the teams, you took some criticism from the fans in Ottawa when you went to Nashville. Both emotionally and spiritually, how do you deal with that kind of criticism and other disappointments that inherently come your way as an athlete?

Fisher: You’re always going to face a little bit of criticism from time to time. But I was so blessed in Ottawa for so many years. The fans were great to me there. I was blessed to have some good friends and family nearby. So I really just try to focus on all those good things and how fortunate I was. I think it’s about putting things in to perspective and I know that God had his hand in all of that. He allowed me to be drafted close to home and then the trade happened. I didn’t ask for the trade or want to leave but it was probably the best things that could ever happen because of Carrie and I. Just to see God’s hand in that is incredible. We’d lost 11 in a row before I got traded and things were a little dicey. I didn’t know what was going to happen. After the trade, my mom told me a day before I got traded that she thought, “Well maybe the season isn’t going so well for Mike so he can get traded to Nashville and be with Carrie.” She called it. She knew that’s what the Lord had in mind. It was really a blessing. We can doubt the Lord when we go through tough times, but you know that He’s always got your best interest at heart. When you see the overall picture afterwards, you’re like, “Why did I even doubt.”

Bonham: How has your faith impacted the way you approach the game of hockey?

Fisher: I consider myself a pretty hardworking guy and I like to play hard, play physical and play well defensively too. I have spoken about my faith and that’s really a part of who I am and I’ve never shied away from sharing that. God’s given me this talent and ability and this platform. The worst thing to do is to blow that off and not give the right people credit. He deserves all the credit. My faith has been a big part of growing up into who I am and who I’m trying to become. Hopefully I can be a good light in the hockey world and promote faith as something that’s really real.

Bonham: When people hear your story, what kind of impact do you hope it has on them?

Fisher: For those that don’t have faith, I hope they will begin to search that out and ask, “What’s that about? What does it mean to have a relationship with Jesus?” Even if just one person heard my story and accepted Christ, that would make it all worthwhile. It would be awesome. And then there are people that have a faith and know Christ and I hope that they’re encouraged to share it and to use their gifts and talents and abilities and not be afraid to tell people about Christ and to be open and to not be ashamed and to be proud of it—to have the courage to do that. That would be awesome.

Bonham: Hockey isn’t known for having a lot of outspoken Christians. How do you manage to exist in that world and what hope do you have that more players will begin experiencing a life of faith?

NASHVILLE, TN – SEPTEMBER 17: Mike Fisher of the Nashville Predators poses for his official headshot for the 2015-2016 season on September 17, 2015 at the Bridgestone Arena in Nashville, Tennessee. (Photo by John Russell/NHLI via Getty Images) *** Local Caption *** Mike Fisher

Fisher: Hockey has come a long way—even over the last 10 years. You’re seeing a few more guys and there are some great chapel programs through Hockey Ministries International. But for me, it’s just trying to be real. I’ve been in the league for a while and the first few years were probably the toughest but after that, for the most part, the guys have come to respect that it’s part of who I am. If you’re truly living the way Jesus lived, then you’re going to get those people that disagree. But you’re also going to get those people who, if you’re loving them the right way and you’re being a good teammate, are going to like you too. For the most part, it’s been great. I’ve met a lot of good people and I’ve been blessed to play with some great Christian guys too that have encouraged me a lot. I’ve seen guys grow in their faith through those relationships. That’s exciting.

Bonham: Your wife has been quoted about how much you’ve helped her grow in her faith. How sobering of a thought is it that you are biblically responsible to be the spiritual leader of your marriage and how seriously do you take that responsibility?

Fisher: I take it very seriously. We’re both doing this thing together but I take it seriously that we make sure we’re encouraging each other and praying together and growing spiritually. That’s such an important thing. The closer we feel to God, the closer we feel to each other. When we’re in the Word and growing and doing things we need to be doing, it makes the relationship so much better. That’s so important and that’s a top priority for sure.

Bonham: How does your faith help guide you as a husband?

Fisher: Before we got married, trust was one of the three things our pastor touched on in our counseling. It’s really second important only behind your relationship with Christ. We both live different lives and we’re on the road a lot. We trust each other with all our hearts. It makes it so much easier to know I can trust her character and who she is as a person. That’s the same way it is with the Lord. It’s comforting. It’s freeing. It brings a lot of peace knowing that you don’t have to worry about anything and you can trust in Him. If you don’t have that, good luck.

Bonham: Do you feel like it’s your responsibility to model that for other husbands out there?

Fisher: Even with just my teammates, I’ve been able to be an example for those guys that aren’t even married yet and showing them God’s way to date properly and how to do the right things. I’ve gone through all that. I’ve been on the wrong side of it and done it the wrong way and fortunately with my wife, we did it the right way and God has really blessed that. That’s allowed me to help some other guys along the way. It’s all part of being a leader. That’s what I try to do.

Bonham: What are some situations in your career where you’ve really had to lean on you faith and trust in God’s plan?

Fisher: I’ve had a shoulder problem for the last few years. It’s been tough. So I ended up having shoulder surgery. It was going through my recovery and things weren’t going too well. I was pretty frustrated and I ended up having another surgery because I had so much scar tissue. I just remember a few nights where I was so frustrated because I couldn’t get my arm over my head. I was expected to be back and doing pretty well in full workouts, but I had a hard time and I was way behind. In my lack of trust, fear started to creep in. I wasn’t totally giving things up to the Lord. But one night I was so frustrated and I had to just give it to the Lord and pray about it and that really helped.

Bonham: What advice would you give others about the importance of trusting God?

Fisher: It starts with some of the little things. Sometimes trust takes time. We all love to be in control, but when you start to give some of that up, it’s freeing. Start with some of the little things. Give those things up to the Lord. Ultimately the most important decision you can make is giving your life over to Christ and trusting Him with it. That’s an amazing thing. When you can do that, some of your fears begin to fade. Sometimes I think about some of my fears and I always think about the scripture “If God is for you, who can be against you?” What better person to have on your team than the God who made you?

 

(Photos: Zonderkidz, Mike Fisher, John Russell/NHLI via Getty Images, and NHL Images)

Author: CSJ Admin

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *